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How Do You Navigate Sex and Intimacy When One Partner Has HSV?

How Do You Navigate Sex and Intimacy When One Partner Has HSV?

Closeness doesn’t have to pause just because one form of it does. TL;DR Recognizing a prodrome, the tingling, itching, or burning that precedes a visible[…]

How Should You Handle HSV Status on Dating Apps?

How Should You Handle HSV Status on Dating Apps?

The blank bio field can feel like a bigger decision than it needs to be. TL;DR Most people do not put HSV in a dating[…]

How Much Can You Actually Lower the Risk of Passing Herpes to a Partner?

How Much Can You Actually Lower the Risk of Passing Herpes to a Partner?

Real numbers, not just reassurance, tend to make these decisions easier. TL;DR For couples where one partner has HSV, three tools measurably lower transmission risk:[…]

How Do You Tell Someone You Have Herpes? Scripts for Every Dating Stage

How Do You Tell Someone You Have Herpes? Scripts for Every Dating Stage

The right words often start with a short, honest message. TL;DR The right way to disclose herpes depends on relationship stage: a brief heads-up before[…]

Can You Transmit Herpes Without Visible Symptoms?

Can You Transmit Herpes Without Visible Symptoms?

Real life with HSV Can You Transmit Herpes Without Visible Symptoms? By Taylor · June 15, 2026 Open communication and protective measures can alleviate the[…]

How to Track and Journal Your Herpes Triggers to Reduce Outbreaks

How to Track and Journal Your Herpes Triggers to Reduce Outbreaks

Real life with HSV How to Track and Journal Your Herpes Triggers to Reduce Outbreaks By Taylor · June 1, 2026 Starting a daily habit[…]